My Boundaries Are for NarcissistsNew
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My Boundaries Are for Narcissists


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  • Chain link fence artwork with hot pink signage panels
  • Illustrated character in a leather jacket and boots
  • Premium unisex cotton, pre-shrunk
  • Available in Black, Charcoal, and Berry
The Message

About This Design

A healthy person hears a boundary and adjusts. A narcissist hears a boundary and treats it as a challenge: they test it, they push past it, and then they punish you for having put it there at all. That is why survivors so often arrive in therapy having lost the ability to say no to anyone. The work of recovery is largely the work of rebuilding that word. "My Boundaries Are for Narcissists" is not a threat aimed at anyone in particular. It is a statement of self-knowledge: I know where my limits are, I know why they exist, and I know exactly who they were built in response to.

What You Get
  • Chain link fence artwork with hot pink signage panels
  • Illustrated character in a leather jacket and boots
  • Premium unisex cotton, pre-shrunk
  • Available in Black, Charcoal, and Berry
  • Machine washable, fade-resistant print
  • One of several boundary designs in the shop

A chain link fence with the message bolted to it in hot pink signage. The metaphor does all the work: this is not a suggestion, it is a barrier, and it was put up for a reason.

Setting limits with a narcissist is not an act of self-care. It is an act of survival, and most survivors had to learn it the hard way before they trusted themselves to hold the line.

Premium unisex cotton in Black, Charcoal, and Berry, printed so the pink signage stays vivid wash after wash.

Product Details

Product Specifications

All shirts are fulfilled by Amazon via the Merch by Amazon program.

Fabric Type
Solid Colors: 100% Cotton; Heather Grey: 90% Cotton, 10% Polyester; All Other Heathers: 50% Cotton, 50% Polyester
Care Instructions
Machine Wash
Origin
Imported
Closure Type
Pull On
Fabric Weight
Lightweight
Package Dimensions
10 x 8 x 1 inches; 4.8 ounces
Material Type
Cotton, Polyester
Fulfillment
Fulfilled by Amazon

Common Questions

Frequently Asked Questions

Everything you need to know before you order.

What does "My Boundaries Are for Narcissists" mean?
It means your personal limits exist specifically to protect you from manipulative behaviour. It signals that you recognise the patterns and will not be talked out of your own no.
How is this different from the other boundary designs?
This is the pink chain link fence version. The shop also carries a grey chain fence version, a framed version, and a pink brush script version of the same message.
Why do narcissists react so badly to boundaries?
A boundary asserts that you are a separate person with your own limits, which contradicts the way a narcissist relates to the people close to them. The pushback is not about the boundary itself, it is about what having one implies.
What colours is this shirt available in?
Black, Charcoal, and Berry.

Wear What You've Survived

Every design in The Decoded Shop was created for people who came out the other side with clarity, strength, and the courage to name what happened.