Frequently Asked Questions
Common questions about narcissistic abuse, our resources, and how we can help.
Quizzes and Reports
Are the quizzes really anonymous?
Yes, 100%. We do not require an email address to take our free quizzes. Your results are calculated in your browser and are not stored on our servers unless you choose to save them or purchase a full report.
What is included in the Personal Decode report?
The Personal Decode report is a 50+ page comprehensive analysis of your specific situation. It includes:
- Identification of the specific narcissist type (Covert, Grandiose, Malignant, etc.)
- Breakdown of the abuse tactics being used against you
- Trauma impact evaluation
- Customized recovery roadmap
- Curated reading list
How do I access my report after purchase?
Your report is emailed to you as a PDF within 24 hours of completing the assessment. It is not instant, because every Personal Decode report is prepared and reviewed by a real person rather than sent out automatically. You will get a confirmation email straight away, then the finished report within 24 hours. Once you have submitted your answers you can safely close the page.
Privacy and Safety
Will the narcissist know I visited this site?
We use generic billing descriptors on credit card statements to protect your privacy. However, if you share a computer or device with the narcissist, we recommend using "Incognito" or "Private Browsing" mode and clearing your browser history after visiting.
Is my story submission really anonymous?
Yes. When you submit a story, we do not collect your name, email, or IP address. We only ask for the details of your experience. We may edit stories for clarity and length before sharing them to ensure no identifying details are inadvertently included.