New"Flying monkeys" is a term in the narcissistic abuse community for people the narcissist recruits to do their bidding, spreading stories, applying pressure, or checking in on the victim on behalf of the abuser. These can be mutual friends, family members, or coworkers. Maintaining clear limits not just with the narcissist but with their entire circle is a critical part of protecting your healing. This shirt signals that your limits extend to anyone in that network.
Another take on the boundary declaration that has resonated with survivors everywhere. A different design, the same powerful statement: your limits are real, they are valid, and they exist for a reason.
This version comes in softer tones while carrying the same uncompromising message. Because you can be soft and clear at the same time.
Premium unisex cotton in White, Gold, and Lavender.
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Every design in The Decoded Shop was created for people who came out the other side with clarity, strength, and the courage to name what happened.