My Boundaries Are for Narcissists Chain FenceNew
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My Boundaries Are for Narcissists Chain Fence


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  • Soft color palette, same strong message
  • Unisex premium cotton tee
  • Available in White, Gold, and Lavender
  • For survivors protecting their entire circle
The Message

About This Design

"Flying monkeys" is a term in the narcissistic abuse community for people the narcissist recruits to do their bidding, spreading stories, applying pressure, or checking in on the victim on behalf of the abuser. These can be mutual friends, family members, or coworkers. Maintaining clear limits not just with the narcissist but with their entire circle is a critical part of protecting your healing. This shirt signals that your limits extend to anyone in that network.

What You Get
  • Soft color palette, same strong message
  • Unisex premium cotton tee
  • Available in White, Gold, and Lavender
  • For survivors protecting their entire circle
  • Pre-shrunk, machine washable

Another take on the boundary declaration that has resonated with survivors everywhere. A different design, the same powerful statement: your limits are real, they are valid, and they exist for a reason.

This version comes in softer tones while carrying the same uncompromising message. Because you can be soft and clear at the same time.

Premium unisex cotton in White, Gold, and Lavender.

Product Details

Product Specifications

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Fabric Type
Solid Colors: 100% Cotton; Heather Grey: 90% Cotton, 10% Polyester; All Other Heathers: 50% Cotton, 50% Polyester
Care Instructions
Machine Wash
Origin
Imported
Closure Type
Pull On
Fabric Weight
Lightweight
Package Dimensions
10 x 8 x 1 inches; 4.8 ounces
Material Type
Cotton, Polyester
Fulfillment
Fulfilled by Amazon

Common Questions

Frequently Asked Questions

Everything you need to know before you order.

What are "flying monkeys" in narcissistic abuse?
Flying monkeys are third parties, such as friends, family, or coworkers, that the narcissist recruits to carry out manipulation, deliver messages, gather information, or apply pressure on the victim.
How is this different from the other boundaries shirt?
This version features a softer color palette and a different design aesthetic while carrying the same core boundary message.
What colors does this come in?
White, Gold, and Lavender.

Wear What You've Survived

Every design in The Decoded Shop was created for people who came out the other side with clarity, strength, and the courage to name what happened.