
Why narcissists cheat and how to recognize the patterns
The Narcissist and Infidelity examines why narcissists cheat with a frequency and casualness that most partners struggle to comprehend. Infidelity in narcissistic relationships is rarely about the other person and almost always about supply, entitlement, and the narcissist's fundamental belief that the rules that apply to others do not apply to them.
This book explains the psychology of narcissistic infidelity, including why discovery rarely produces genuine remorse, why affairs often serve specific supply functions beyond sexual need, and what it means for your relationship when you have found out. It also covers the specific gaslighting that follows discovery.
Whether you are trying to understand what happened, deciding whether to stay, or in the process of leaving, this book helps you see the infidelity clearly rather than through the narcissist's version of events.
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