Flying Monkeys & the Narcissist's Army
How narcissists recruit allies and use them as weapons
- ✓How narcissists recruit and manage flying monkeys
- ✓The smear campaign: how your reputation is attacked before and after you leave
- ✓Why even good people become flying monkeys and how to respond to them
- ✓Recognizing when information you share is being relayed to the narcissist
What You Will Learn
Flying Monkeys and the Narcissist's Army exposes one of the most underestimated aspects of narcissistic abuse: the way narcissists recruit other people to extend their reach, monitor their targets, and carry out harassment on their behalf. Flying monkeys can be family members, friends, colleagues, or community figures who have been recruited, wittingly or unwittingly, into the narcissist's campaign.
This book explains how narcissists build their armies, what they tell their recruits, and why otherwise good people become complicit in the abuse of someone they may also care about. It covers the tactics used to isolate victims, smear their reputations, and use social pressure as a weapon.
- How narcissists recruit and manage flying monkeys
- The smear campaign: how your reputation is attacked before and after you leave
- Why even good people become flying monkeys and how to respond to them
- Recognizing when information you share is being relayed to the narcissist
- Strategies for protecting yourself from triangulation and proxy harassment
- How to rebuild your social world after a narcissistic smear campaign
If you have experienced a narcissist turning your own support network against you, this book validates that experience and gives you a clear strategy for navigating the social warfare that comes with it.
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